When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them and healed their sick. - Matthew 14:14
It is foundational to our healing for someone to see us with compassion. We do not see ourselves with compassion. Instead, we often see ourselves through harsh, condemning eyes. We have come to reject and shame ourselves for our need. In order to learn to heal from the inside out we need someone to see us differently than we have been told to see ourselves. We need someone to see us as we are and to respond to us with emotional warmth and genuine concern.
And had compassion.
And he healed.
All three experiences are helpful in recovery. God sees us. He sees that we struggle, that we need help, that we hurt. Our brokenness is not a surprise or a disappointment to God. God has compassion on us. God feels with us. God is emotionally responsive to us.
It matters to God that we are in need.
It impacts God.
Having seen us and had compassion for us,
God touches our wounds.
God mends our broken hearts.
God strengthens our weary spirits.
For those of us who have felt invisible, who have experienced shame and rejection and abuse, it is a wonderful thing to find someone who
and seeks to heal!
Lord, thank you that you see me. You see my pain. Thank you that it matters to you that I struggle and hurt. Thank you that it is in the context of personal attention and compassion that you heal me. I await your healing touch today. Amen
Copyright 1991 Dale and Juanita Ryan